Benefits of Abstinence Until Marriage.
Half a decade ago, it was taboo for unmarried individuals to engage in sex before they tied the know unlike today where abstinence is a thing of the past. Abstinence is very important, but modernization has caused the destruction of moral values with most being forgotten completely. When you preserver and abstain from sex till the night you are married to your loved one, here are the benefits you reap.
Great communication between you and your couple is the first benefit you reap from abstaining from sex until you are married. For a marriage to work, the couples must communicate. The development of bad communication habits is inevitable when a couple starts having sex before they are married. As much as sex is a form of intimacy on a physical level it deprives both the lady and the man to connect emotionally and have an intimate relationship which clearly brings out their unique emotional aspects and this negatively impacts communication between them. If more time is spent on physical intimacy, less of it is dedicated to emotional intimacy which is quite revealing in terms of character, intimacy and personality.
The second benefit of abstinence is that you build a stronger bond and relationship with you mate. A physical bond tends to emerge between a couple which engages in sex before they are married. It is inevitable for a physical bond fostered through intimacy to wear away if it doesn’t have an emotional bonds backing. In order to keep intimacy and the physical bond afloat, start by fostering a strong emotional bond so that you give your marriage a chance when the physical bond slowly wears off over the years. When you abstain from sex before marriage and focus on building on emotional intimacy. You establish a friendship, trust, culture, and loyalty throughout your married life.
Abstinence also encourages more romance in a relationship. Romance in a relationship manifests in the sweet things the couples do for one another such as caring, sending cute messages, sharing of gifts, going out on dates and picnics. These are the best ways they can show affection, but it can easily be ruined when they become physical. Engaging in sex satisfies the yearn for romance as both are gestures of intimacy and when sex prevails, romance is inhibited. Romance keeps you on toes as you have to consistently come up with new ways of loving, showing affection and attraction to your partner and this way you create a strong bond between both of you.
To conclude, when two partners avoid having sex before marriage, it fosters generosity between them. A sense of selfishness tends to develop in a physical relationship where one or both partners feel that their better half needs to submit to them when they are in need of sex. In such a scenario, the relationship is doomed to go down the drain. If you wait for marriage, all this can be avoided.